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  • How to Create Your Own Meme and Go Viral

    How to Create Your Own Meme and Go Viral

    What is a meme?

    A ‘meme’ is something that goes “viral”, which means that it gets shared all over the Internet. It can be almost any idea or concept expressed in some form of content on the web. It can be a photo, a video, a person, an animal, a fictional character, an event, a song, a belief, an action, a GIF, a symbol, a word or anything else. Most are captioned photos or series of photos intended to be funny. The photo may be used over and over with different captions.

    Many start on sites like 4chan, Reddit, and Tumblr. They become viral through social media sharing.

    If you’d like to jump on the meme bandwagon, here’s some ways to do it:

    1. Help memes go viral by sharing on social media
    2. Download an interesting photo and then share it with your own edits, captions, or comments
    3. Make your own

    You can make a meme by using a photo, drawing, or video of your own, or just a phrase with a background. You can use a tool like Microsoft Paint or PhotoShop, or use the creative options that your social media platform provides.

    There are now specialized websites and apps for meme creation.

    Kapwing

    Canva

     

    Here’s a meme that I created using PowerPoint.

     

    Make your own meme using PowerPoint

    Create your own meme using PowerPoint

     

    Here are the steps in PowerPoint:

    1. Insert a picture using the Insert menu
    2. Insert a callout shape from the Insert menu
    3. Insert a text box from the Insert menu
    4. Change the text color to black and write the text
    5. Select all, right-click, and select “Group
    6. Right click and select “Save as Picture

    That’s it! It just took me a few minutes.

    Do you want to help my meme go viral? Be sure to like, comment, and share.

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  • Here’s an Easy Way to Get Those Important Emails Texted to You

    Here’s an Easy Way to Get Those Important Emails Texted to You

    Get important emails by text

     

    It’s difficult to stay on top of email volume for anyone. The best method for dealing with too many emails may depend on your personality type as time management specialist Susan Tollefson writes about here: 4 Email Management Styles.

    You may or may not fall into one of those categories. You may also be someone who prefers other communication methods. After all, email management is something that you need time and a routine to deal with. Perhaps you’re someone who prefers to text or message people.

    The problem is that lots of people still use email. If you’re ignoring your inbox, you may be missing important emails.

    You can make the email routine less onerous by getting organized, as I write about here: 4 Ways to Becoming More Responsive. One of these organizational methods is automation through the use of email filters.

    Create filters for the most important emails from your VIP list.

    You could have those emails automatically go into a specific folder that you check religiously. Or you can have them flagged or starred.

    If you’d rather be getting those important emails on your phone, you can set up a filter that will automatically text them to you. Your network provider provides an email address for you to do that.

    If you’re on Verizon, for example, you can set up a filter to forward those emails to <your 10-digit phone number>@vtext.com. (For example, if the phone number is 555-123-4567, forward to 5551234567@vtext.com.)

    For AT&T, forward to <your 10-digit phone number>@txt.att.net.

    Depending on your provider and the length of the email, the message may be truncated or sent as multiple text messages. You will have to go into your email to see the entire message.

    Here’s how to set up those filters:

    Outlook: How to Set up Auto Forwarding in Outlook

    Mac Mail: Forward Messages

    Gmail: How to Forward Mails in Gmail

     

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  • 6 Tips for Email Hoarders and Anyone Else with Too Many Emails

    6 Tips for Email Hoarders and Anyone Else with Too Many Emails

    Email hoarders

    How many emails do you have in your Inbox? A few? A few hundred? A few thousand?

    If the latter, then you may be one of those email hoarders.

    Perhaps you think that you may need to reference those old emails someday. Or perhaps you’re keeping many of them because you want to go back and deal with them when you have more time.

    It hasn’t been a problem so far. You’ve got old emails going back years and so what?

    What’s wrong with being one of those email hoarders?

    If you’re reading your email through a browser:

    You’re depending on Google or Yahoo or even AOL to keep all those emails safe for you. Their servers seem to have almost unlimited storage space and, every time that you log on, your emails are still there.

    You will probably continue to be OK, but any email service could develop a problem. At the very least, your account could get hacked and your emails wiped completely out.

    So I recommend that, at the very least, you forward your emails to another account – a backup account.

    If you’re downloading your emails and reading them on your computer through a program like Outlook or Mac Mail:

    You at least have a backup. (You are backing up your computer, right?) However, your immense Inbox is taking up space on your computer storage and slowing down syncing and searching.

    Here’s what I recommend to get a handle on your Inbox:

    1. Delete old emails from your “Sent” folder.
    2. Empty your trash.
    3. Declare bankruptcy. Unless you need to keep emails for legal reasons, you will never need those old emails again. Pick a date, say a year ago or two years, and delete all emails before that date.
    4. Sort your inbox by size. Delete those emails with large attachments, or at least detach the attachments and save separately to your computer.
    5. If you’ve set up filters, as I write about here: How to De-Clutter Your Inbox , go through your folders and delete old newsletters.
    6. If you have your own domain, set an email quota through your provider’s cPanel. You will start getting warning notifications as you approach your quota, which will remind you to clean things up.

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  • How You Run Your Inbox Is How You Run Your Life – by Jenna Teague

    How You Run Your Inbox Is How You Run Your Life – by Jenna Teague

    How You Run Your Inbox

    Here’s a (potentially scary) question for you…

            What would someone learn about you if they took a peek inside your inbox?

            Would it give them an accurate picture of who you are?

    What if I told you that how you run your inbox reveals even more about you than what’s inside it?

    You may have heard this famous quote from Martha Beck:

            “The way we do anything is the way we do everything.”

    And the same goes for the way we do email.

    Like it or not, most of us spend a lot of time in our inboxes. But how exactly are we spending that time?

    According to psychologists, our external environments — the way we keep our homes, desks, and yes, our inboxes — are representations of our internal worlds.

    So, what inner landscape is your inbox revealing about you?

    Option #1: Overstuffed and Chaotic Inbox

    Does even looking at the number of unread messages in your inbox send you into a blind panic? Do you try to avoid your inbox at all costs?

    You’ve probably missed an important email (or 20) because your inbox is overflowing. You can never find the important stuff when you need it.

    How can you even begin to figure what’s important amidst the sea of random newsletters and marketing emails you never read yet never unsubscribe from.

    You probably feel like giving up on your inbox altogether. You’ll never get through the backlog of unread stuff.

    Maybe it’s time to select all → delete and get yourself a new Gmail account.

    But that wouldn’t solve the problem, would it? Because your inbox isn’t the only thing in your life that feels overwhelming and chaotic. And an email is probably not the only important thing you’ve missed.

    The Lesson

    It’s not all or nothing, in your inbox or your life. Start unsubscribing from mailing lists that don’t serve you. Start saying no to unnecessary commitments and activities. Practice paying attention to what’s important. Consciously commit to not trying to do everything.

    Option #2: Folder Queen

    Your inbox is the digital equivalent of living inside The Container Store. A place for every message and every message in its place.

    You’ve got more folders than a Lisa Frank Trapper Keeper. You love nothing more than dragging and dropping a message into its appointed spot. You’ve got the Tetris of inboxes!

    Chances are your inbox isn’t the only meticulously organized and over-controlled area of your life. Maybe you’re a little rigid in the way you keep your home, your desk, your calendar…?

    The Lesson

    Do you need all those folders? Are you spending more time organizing things than actually dealing with them?

    If you cut back on the structure a little bit, how would you feel? How would you choose to spend the time that you freed up by not dragging each metaphorical message into a different folder? What if your inbox — and your life — were a little bit messy and (gasp!) spontaneous?

    Option #3: Inbox Zero or Bust

    There is nothing more rewarding for you than the satisfaction of knowing you have no unread messages. Zip, zero, zilch. Inbox Zero is a way of life for you.

    You are (unhealthily?) obsessed with reading and responding to each message as soon as it arrives. Check, read, respond, file… Again and again in an endless loop for the rest of time.

    You love checking items off your to do list, and the Inbox Zero life gives you that in spades. Tiny little hits of accomplishment all day long.

    Your inbox is not the only place in your life where you’re ruled by tasks. You need to complete them quickly, efficiently, and perfectly to feel a sense of accomplishment.

    The Lesson

    You’ve got to get off the achievement hamster wheel! You are not your inbox or your to do list. You are so much more than that, and your life will not fall apart if you miss an email or task (or 10).

    At first, it might feel uncomfortable to know that you’ve got unread emails sitting in your inbox and unaccomplished tasks languishing on your to do list. That discomfort fades when you start to experience other ways to spend your time. You’ll find that you would never trade the freedom and flexibility that loosening that tie creates. You can still get things done without your inbox (or to do list) ruling over your time.

    The Insights

    So, were you surprised to learn what your relationship with your inbox says about you? Do some of your email habits reflect your larger life habits? Are there things about the ways you do email that you want to change?

    The bottom line:

    You are in charge of how how you manage things, in your inbox and all areas of your life and business. When you’re aware of your own habits, you’re in a much better position to know what’s working and to change what’s not.

    Here’s to making your inbox work for you and your unique personality.

    About the Author

    At her core, Jenna Teague is a healer. Jenna comes from over a decade of supporting clients’ healing in her psychotherapy practice and sparking business healing for coaches and entrepreneurs. Jenna co-creates with her clients game-changing shifts in their lives and businesses. She knows, deep down in her bones, that presence always trumps perfection. Building community is what lights her up most.

    If you want to see Jenna at her giddiest (and geekiest), invite her to your next creative brainstorming session. She lives for that. You can find her at Jenna Teague and Nourish Your Practice.

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  • How to Politely Follow up When You’re Not Getting an Email Response

    How to Politely Follow up When You’re Not Getting an Email Response

    Follow up on unanswered emails.

     

    Follow-up is important for business and for getting things done.

    I write here about integrating your follow-up routine with your daily tasks: 3 Simple Paths to a Powerful Follow-Up Routine.

    But what if you’re feeling shy about following up on an initial email that got no response?

    You’re wondering why that person didn’t respond to you. Are you bugging that person if you follow up?

    Lack of follow-up on your part can cause you to lose touch, resulting in a neglected relationship and perhaps loss of business. But it’s hard to be persistent if you’re an introvert – much easier to let it go.

    Remember that lack of an email response does not necessarily imply lack of interest in you or in your business.

    There are many reasons for not getting a response. Email overwhelm affects many people and they may not be good themselves with follow-up. There may also be generational differences. Many younger people do not bother much with email.

    So send that email again and word it a little differently. Keep it light and friendly. Assume that your first email wasn’t seen, so don’t complain or nag. Offer to meet in person for coffee.

    Set a reminder to follow up again if you still get no response.

    Some experts recommend sending five emails before giving up, but I would suggest another approach. After two emails with no response, try another contact method. Give that person a phone call, if you feel comfortable. Leave a short voicemail asking if she/he/they received your email and that you’re looking forward to a response or to getting together. Or send a text message.

    Phone calls and text messages are more intrusive than email, so use them used for short reminders.

    If the silence continues, then try to connect on social media, such as LinkedIn for a business contact, so that you’re at least on that person’s radar. Perhaps the timing wasn’t right, but she/he/they may want to respond sometime in the future. And if it’s someone that you do care about and want to stay connected with, send a nice handwritten card.

     

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  • Managing your Browser Tabs: 4 Simple Ways for Multitaskers

    Managing your Browser Tabs: 4 Simple Ways for Multitaskers

    There are many styles and personality types when working with technology.

    Are you someone who composes emails but doesn’t send them right away? Do you have lots of applications running at the same time? Do you have lots of browser tabs open?

    You may be a multitasker.

    Apart from other reasons to rein in your multi-taking tendencies (read here for tips: Tricks That’ll Stop You from Multitasking), there is a technical reason that this style can be inefficient. That reason is: keeping multiple windows open and multiple tabs open in your browser can slow your computer down.

    Your computer has only so much memory. When there are too many demands on that memory, the computer has to spend time swapping out data its hard drive. Try to close an application every time that you open an application and try to close a browser tab every time that you open one.

    But if you’re multi-tasking, you may be keeping browser tabs open because you want to go back and finish something. If you find that you are consistently faced with too many tabs, there are things that can help.

    For Safari, Chrome, or Firefox, use a browser tabs suspender extension. Suspend Brower Tabs Extension

    This will automatically close (“suspend”) those websites in your tabs, but still keep track of them in each tab. You can reload those websites when you go back to the tabs.

     

    For Microsoft Edge, use the “Set aside your tabs” feature.

    Microsoft Edge help you to manage your browser tabs.Try bookmarking the websites and then closing the browser tabs. Save brower tabs as bookmarks.

    Keep a bookmarks sidebar in your browser for quick access.
     

    Try the Pocket extension.

    After you install the extension and sign up for a Pocket account, you can save websites for later access. Pocket is my personal favorite for those websites that I want to get back to and then check them off as “done” (read). If I want to save a website instead for regular access, I will use a bookmark.

     

     
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  • 4 Email Management Styles – by Susan Tollefson

    4 Email Management Styles – by Susan Tollefson

    Email Management Routine

    Did you know that everyone has their own personal email management style? Your style has a strong influence on your approach to managing your email. So it’s helpful to understand those influences and take them into consideration to maximize your productivity.

    There are 4 common email management styles. Find the one that best describes you to gain some insight on how you can get things done more efficiently.

    Style #1: Losing focus and trouble finishing your email management

    You like things to move quickly. You have a tendency to jump from one task to another, which decreases your focus and your productivity. Distractions and interruptions are a frequent occurrence as well.

    Solution: Consider blocking off as much time as possible first thing in the morning to work on your email management. Don’t allow yourself to focus on anything else during this time. Turn off the phone and incoming email notifications.

    Style #2: Difficulty making decisions

    When faced with choices, you have trouble making decisions and often put things off. You may be afraid that you are making the wrong decision or you aren’t clear about what you want.

    Solution: Keep an eye on your goals and your priorities. When you are clear about what you want, it becomes easier to make decisions. Also, asking for advice from others is an option. Paying attention to how you feel about your choices can help guide you as well.

    Style #3: Waiting until your email is out of control

    You are often motivated to get things done in high pressure situations. When you wait until your email is out of control, you may not be putting forth your best effort. You are also susceptible to a higher level of stress.

    Solution: Try breaking your email management down into smaller pieces. It’s also a good idea to assign some deadlines. Try setting a timer for 10 minutes. You can give yourself permission to stop after this time has elapsed. But there is a good chance that you will keep going.

    Style #4: Getting stuck in the details and doing things perfectly

    You have very high standards. You may be spending too much time perfecting your email management. This leads to the assumption that you will never have enough time to get through your email.

    Solution: Consider giving less energy to low priority emails. Instead take some time to figure out your top priorities. Dedicate your time to those emails that you know are the most important.

    About the Author: Susan Tollefson

    Susan Tollefson is a business consultant and coach. She has over 20 years of experience overseeing key projects for large corporations. She brings her background of corporate success and enthusiasm for helping entrepreneurs grow to business owners in the San Francisco Bay Area.

    Read more from Susan here: Inside Out Business Systems Blog.

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  • Google Inbox User? How to Use Email Templates for Fast and Efficient Responses.

    Google Inbox User? How to Use Email Templates for Fast and Efficient Responses.

    Use Google Inbox templates for canned responses.

    It takes time to get through your daily emails. Even if you follow good email organization (see my blog post here: 4 Steps to Becoming More Responsive), it’s time-consuming to read and respond to emails.

    If you find yourself responding in a similar way to certain emails, then you can use Google Inbox canned responses or email templates for higher efficiency.

    Let’s say, for example, you get a lot of requests for information that you have to research. You may find yourself responding often with: “Thanks for your inquiry. I’ll look into that and get back to you by the end of the week.” For another example, you may get a lot of requests for one-on-one meetings and you’re responding with “Thanks, I’d love to meet with you. Could you please send me your availability for next week?”.

    Rather than take the time to type those email responses over and over, use Google Inbox smart features to be more efficient.

    Google Inbox has some canned responses (called “smart replies”) built in. You can see them at the bottom of some emails. Your canned response choices will depend on how Google’s artificial intelligence algorithms parse the original email. Read more here: How Google’s AI Auto-magically answers your emails.

    You can also easily create a Google Inbox custom template. Here’s how: compose a new email with your template wording, click on the down arrow to the far right, click again on the down arrow to the far right, and select “Make this draft a template.” You’ll then be able to give your template a name. Once that’s done, close your original compose window.

    Google Inbox Template

    You can only use the template in a new email composition, so you’ll have to copy and paste for email replies. Here’s how: compose a new email, click on the down arrow to the far right, click again on the down arrow to the far right, and select your template. You can then copy and paste into your reply.

     
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  • If You Snooze (Email), You Don’t Lose (Your Follow-up Tasks)

    If You Snooze (Email), You Don’t Lose (Your Follow-up Tasks)

    Snooze Email

    Staying on top of email chaos is not easy.

    Even after you’ve followed the steps to manage your email inbox (see my blog post here: 4 Steps to Becoming More Responsive), you still need to “deal with” those emails that need a follow-up task. How do you make sure that you get those done, and that they don’t get lost in the daily shuffle?

    There may be email invitations to meetings or events or lunch and you leave them in your Inbox to remember the date. There may be questions from clients whose emails you need to follow up on later. There may be business partners sending information that you’d like to read when you have time.

    Some email programs have a snooze email feature.

    When you snooze email, it leaves your inbox, and then come back to the top of your inbox at the specified time.

    A snoozed email is more likely to catch your eye because it’s at the top. If you’ve done a good job of scheduling it, then you’re now ready to act on it. It’s closer to the date of the event, or you now have the information that you need to follow up, or you now have the time to read it.

    Here’s how to take advantage of the snooze email feature:

    • Gmail – try switching to Google’s Inbox which has the snooze email feature. You can read more here: How to Easily Strike Off Tasks.
    • Apple Mail: Try the Spark application (review their privacy first: Spark App). Spark on the Mac is fairly new so it may be buggy. Or you can try the MailButler plugin (for Mac Mail only).
    • Outlook: For Outlook mobile, you swipe right on an email to snooze it. There is no snooze function for the desktop version.
    • Sanebox is a service that automatically prioritizes your Inbox and filters less important email into a folder, called “SaneLater”. The service has other features as well, such as reminders to follow-up on sent emails and the snooze email feature. Sanebox is $7/month for the basic plan with one optional feature, such as the SaneSnooze.

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  • 4 Steps for a Stress-Free Email Management System

    4 Steps for a Stress-Free Email Management System

    Stress-free email managementIt can be stressful to see your Inbox growing out of control. There is also an increased risk of missing important email correspondence. It’s no longer possible to treat your inbox like it’s a to-do list that keeps growing and growing.

    The first step towards productive email management is to identify your goals.

    For most of us, it means:

    • Not missing important emails
    • Not having to spend hours of our time picking out the important emails
    • Quickly finding an email when we need it
    • Being able to scan the inbox for important items

    You can still scan your inbox at strategic times during the day. But you also need to make sure to schedule time daily for email management.

    Here is an email management system that I call “Yesterday First”.

    1. Decide on a stop time for your email management routine.
      Email management can be a real time-suck, so set a timer. I recommend not more than one hour. You can return to it later if you have more time.
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    3. Start with yesterday’s emails.
      This is to make sure that you’re not missing those important emails because, as your inbox is filling up, older emails are disappearing. Checking yesterday’s emails first ensures that you haven’t missed anything.
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    5. Deal with every email. Start with the earliest email from yesterday through the latest email from today.
       
      The flow goes like this:
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      Email Managment Yesterday First Flow

    7. Look at your remaining time. You’ll have to divide the time between the following steps. (You will not finish each step, but you will make progress.)
    • Spend some time reviewing earlier emails in your inbox. Repeat Step #3.
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    • Spend some time reviewing your “someday/maybe folder” and see if you can act on or trash any emails.
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    • If you have set up any filters (See: How to De-Clutter Your Email Inbox), spend some time reviewing those folders and see it you can act on or trash any emails.
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    • Spend some time reviewing your flagged emails and see if you can act on or trash any emails.

    Ideally, you have a set time every day for your Yesterday First system. If your schedule gets out of whack, then do it whenever you have a chance to sit down at your desk.

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